Witch's Way Craft

Self Love Spell Candle - Vintage Ruby Red Avon Cape Code Water Goblet (LARGE)


These our our handmade self love candles, we chant incantations if self love and worth for the user while making these candles.

Use this candle for yourself or someone who you think can use a confidence boost. This candle will come with unique written instructions and guidelines on how to use.

This candle smells fruity like cherries and oranges mixed with a hint of honeysuckle and jasmine.


They are infused with natural essential oils such as honeysuckle, jasmine, guaiacwood, orange, and grapefruit, containing herbs such as wild cherry, lavender, jasmine flowers, cinnamon stick, Rose, thyme, rosemary, and more! Crystals included range from smoky quartz, rose quartz, garnet, and amethyst. Self love candles are to be used during rituals of self healing, growth, expansion, etc.

This vessel holds approximately 8 to 10 ounces of wax and can burn up to 80 hours




By purchasing this candle you are confirming you are able to safely use it without harming yourself or others. 


Spell Candle Guidelines - Self Love

To begin: make sure you cleanse your space, you can cleanse using sacred herbs such as sage, palo santo, juniper, rosemary etc. or using crystals such as selenite, we also recommend using a florida water or moon water wash on your space/floor. 

All candles are individually cleansed before being packed

If  you have an altar representing the elements we recommend placing your candle in Fire, if your candle has herbs and crystals in it the Earth area would work as well.

Self love  manifestation items to place on your altar or have in your space: flowers (roses particularly), honey, chocolate/your favorite treat, a CLEAN mirror.

Before we get to lighting the actual candle take time to reflect on what the purpose of this spell is for you. Self love spell are often cast to aid in lifting our mood and improving our self image/self esteem. Ways to assist in manifesting this would be wearing your favorite outfit while you cast/burn the candle, perhaps wear it the day after if you’re concerned about getting wax or anything on it.                                                           

After reflecting on your goal and desired outcome, light your candle with emotion and intention. Visualize what you want to happen in your head, watch the flame ignite. 

You may use a photo or a written petition underneath your candle while it burns to symbolize your intention. You can write something as simple as “I am worthy of love” or  “my past does not define me” etc. do and say whatever your intuition tells you. 

You do not need to have a mirror but I believe that looking into your reflection and finding what you love most about your outer and inner self is extremely effective in boosting self confidence.


Please snuff out your candle, do not blow it out as it may offend certain deities. Set your intentions every single time before you relight the candle.

When the candle is at its end the crystals may be cleaned off, put in a sachet, under you pillow/bed, in an office drawer, buried, etc. do what speaks to your for your situation. We also recommend offering them to a tree for a few hours.




Click here to view our candle safety info & instructions

The herbs in your candle may catch fire. NEVER burn a candle on or near anything that can catch fire. Keep burning candles away from furniture, drapes, bedding, carpets, books, paper, flammable decorations, etc. Keep burning candles out of the reach of children and pets. 

NEVER burn a candle unsupervised - NEVER burn a candle for more than 4 hours at a time

DO NOT attempt to eat/consume your candle or any crystals/herbs on the candles - DO NOT POUR WAX ON YOUR SKIN

Candles should not be burned for more than four hours at a time. It is recommended that after burning for four hours, candles be extinguished, allowed to cool for two hours, and trimmed before relighting. Trim candlewicks to ¼ inch each time before burning. 

Stop burning your candle when there is ½ inch of wax remaining.

IMPORTANT: If your candle is in a vintage glass and not in a classic candle jar PLEASE be cautious of your burn time. Depending on the circumference of your glass we recommend burning your candle in 2-3 hour intervals to avoid damage or breakage to your glass. If your glass is vintage and has a tapered/smaller bottom such as a martini glass, breakage is more likely as the circumference of the glass gets thinner, to avoid damage burn candles for short amounts of time (1-2 hours). To clean out your candle jar for repurposing we recommend washing it in HOT water with soap, for difficult stuck on wax you may place your candle either in the freezer or in the oven at the LOWEST setting to melt excess wax and pour it out safely using precautions such as an oven-mitt to not burn yourself. We are not responsible for broken or damaged glass once the candle has been scanned as safely delivered by the shipping carrier. 

If you have any questions of safety please email us at info@witchswaycraft.com before burning your candle

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